Believe and Value Yourself

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Every individual was born at different time at different places to the different parents. You are brought-up at different levels and differently by different people. You are physically same and born on the same mother land-the earth, but every individual are physically and mentally different from one another. We have same amount of brain, two eyes, two ears, two hands and legs but the working and the perceptive of our mind are different. They work differently for different individual.  

When you believe and value on what other’s opinions, we are living with circle of fears and it won’t let us to increases our quality of life. If there is fear, there is no freedom. If there is no freedom, there is no happiness. To live without circle of fears and to meet our inner satisfaction you have to self shines through the thick blanket of cloud of other’s opinions. You have to know you are yourself, give self-definition, and value to live yourself to the world with you and yourself with the sense of your own qualities and differences. 

Why you have to concern about what other people think on you and say about you? Their opinion does not make you who you are and what you are? So, rather valuing your self-image on what others say and think, it would be wiser to scrutinize honestly and objectively at yourself. It’s you and yourself can only can know the truth about yourself; what you yourself really like inside are the feelings, the position where we stand and the positives personalities of yourself that you desire and need for the purpose of living. 

At how they define and sense you, still you are yourself. You only know your boundaries and limits and you hold them. If they are necessary, you enforce them and you keep the delicate balance between boundaries and limits that are too rigid or flexible.

So, don’t value on others about what they think and say about you and how they define you, but just practice valuing yourself and be yourself. You are who you are. You born alone and you will die alone-no one will give you company. They just give you few drops of tear which only makes misery way to your Utopia. I argue you never change for anyone at any circumstances. Be who you are.

Be happy and satisfied with what you have. Respect yourself one day you will discover your inner self jewel of your true nature.

-Prem B. Limbu